Who’s The Boss?
In a relationship - who should be the ‘boss’. I guess for me this is pretty plain and simple, but I’m not yet convinced that I’m right. For me (and I’m now gonna have to hide from all the feminists after this), I believe a relationship is like a partnership.
The two of you should work together, decide together, plan together, and live your lives together. But still one should take the lead, and plain and simple this should be the man. There are a lot of different opinions and approaches to this, and I’m open for ideas, but there are some of my basic beliefs that guide my decisions in cases like this, and I suppose it won’t be easily changed. If you believe otherwise, tell me why - and how.
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I’m with you 100% on this one, Diz. Feminists will just have to deal with both of us.
I think it depends on the situation at hand. In my relationship with my husband, we are a partnership. And depending on the situation we’re dealing with, either one of us will lead.